that we keep living individual lives in different parts of the world
making distinctions between who and wat is right/wrong, good/bad and desirable/undesirable...
establishing a certain self understanding level derived from the amount of live experience that we gather for ourselves
and while all this is happening.. we are so unaware of the fact that someone else out there fits all you bills in the perfect manner as u would for youself...
this is not fair to do with yourself
it totally contradicts the law of a universal connection that god has made for us
and so it often makes us wonder why we dint meet the someone we met just a few days back, years ago...
or say maybe as a next door neighbour